I'm the type of girl that hates to assume too much in a relationship. I don't know but I don't like or want to play too important in a persons life or he to me. Just like talking about the future together with a boyfriend, how many or what gender of kids you like, or even just think of walking in the aisle with him! Duh! that' just too much for me! hehe..I don't know but I feel like for me if I talk to him about it he'll just think I'm that eager or I love him that much or kung baga patay na patay ako sa kanya! (toink!)Oh sya oo na ma Pride chicken na ako!hehe..In fairness red mah lips but the last thing I want a guy to think eh yong patay na patay ako sa kanya!N.E.V.E.R! But?when my bunny came along, kinain nya lahat ng pride ko!Ako pa atangpropose sa mokong na to, kasi ang TORPE, and hina ng radar!haha. .Anyways serious ha, my bunny made me think of me walking in the aisle which I never thought in my entire life. Feeling ko ang dyahe, tsaka isang lang malaking ka ek-ekan! But everything changed when I met James, even though we haven't meet in person yet that time I already saw myself with him. And lahat yun has been cleared when he came to the Philippines last May 2009 and met me in person. And by then we started to plan our future together. We never gave up even though we had loads of failures on our way to the journey. January 2010, we applied for my fiancee visa and alas! I was approved in 3 weeks! But before I was approved I was so apprehensive cos bunny set our wedding date already, and I was so pessimistic with the visa. And I said to him "what if I'll be denied again, what shall we do?" and this was his answer " I'll come back in the Philippines I'll find work there, and live there with you. And no matter what happen by hook or by crook I will marry you this year,whether it'll be in the UK or there in the Philippines!" Whew! those were the words that kept me going and I clung on to.God knew how genuine we were so He heard our prayer and now we are half way to the future we both planned. Get married here in the UK, finally met his family, get a job (which I'm still not lucky to have), have our own place to call home (working on it),have little Roxxy and little James in God's good time and growing old together. A glimpse of our future that is worth fighting for.
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6 Thoughtful thoughts for Roxxy:
In time, your dreams will eventually come true. :)
Hahahahaha kakaloka ka sis, torpe pala ah lol.. Buti na lang sumayad din ang radar kahit mahina lol..
Don't forget nostalgia, mwah!
You are truly meant for each other, kaya kinain niya lahat pride mo hehehe thanks for the comment sis!
hahaha, he's a silent type of a guy pala. Good thing he gave you assurance in the end before living together. Hirap din ang long distance relationship if the other is unreachable. Thank God, all went well with you.
Ay ang galing naman ng story nyo. Ang sweet nya, by hook or by crook, he will marry you. You will find a job, maghintay ka lang and you will have your little James and Roxxy, be patient, di naman lahat eh nadadala sa apurahan di ba?
right you are! all our 'glimpses' of the future are worth fighting for..
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