Thursday, 19 August 2010

Wanting a thing and Having it!

Hmmm..Let me think about this issue.hehe.. Well, I know myself very well when I want something of course, just that I can't really tell about my hunny cos he seldom buys for himself, it is even me who remind or tell him he needs something. Just that one time we went shopping for , we passed by HMV which is a video store here and oh he wanted to buy loads of DVDs cos they were on sale that time.He tried to used his convincing charm to me like asking me in a kiddie manner but it didn't worked. Because for me, we don't need loads of DVDs my condition was, he has to finished watching all the DVDs he got and so we can buy one again. And we have a special sign to each other for the special thing we want (wink)..haha.


And on my part, when I want something I try to be oh so patient to my hunny, (not so patient to him on normal days) hehe..But I'm trying to now even thought I'm not asking something, bcos I know of all the people he's best deserve it. It takes a week for me to tell him or give sign to him that I want something because I'm so shy esp. when I need to send money to my mum in the Philippines.I think about it many times first, when is the right time to ask my hunnybun, till I ended up in nega thoughts where in fact my bunny doesn't mind at all. He's great and really so understanding. But of course I still used my sweet, low tone voice when I asked him. And anyway,  I don't really ask him to buy me this or that when I don't need it. I said to myself that I can have those things when I have my own work and earning as well. And with the lifestyle cost here in England, I need to be thrifty and be wise.

" A successful man is one who can make more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man." ----- a funny quote by Lara Turner from our Marriage Matters book.

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2 Thoughtful thoughts for Roxxy:

MinnieRunner said...

And I guess you are using this blog to earn some money? Good luck :)

Mommy Liz said...

You're funny! I know what you mean about having hard time asking your hubby if you can send money to your mum. That is the hardest part of our marriage life, to ask our hubbies to help our family although they don't mind at all. You're right, when you have a job and you make your own money, it won't be so hard anymore, but he still needs to know that you are doing it. It's not because you earn your own money doesn't mean you decide on your own. There are things that we don't have to get their permission, but there are things that we do, to keep our relationship stronger and last longer. Thanks for joining this week. I enjoyed reading your entry, looking forward for more entries in the future. Have a good day. aka RodLiz

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