Another CC week! Well, I'll go straight to the topic " What we want from each other". Hmmm..when it comes to my hunnybun's time and attention I am so demanding. That's what I really want from him most. He knows that ever since especially when I was in the Philippines, we used to set Saturdays as "Roxxy Time". Which meant he cannot commit to any appointments on that day cos that's our day, MY day. So he often missed his cricket practiced, pub nights with friends and some occasions (except family ones) before. He still does missed some now,hehe..I want me and him moment once in a while like on weekends.I really am a KSP (kulang sa pansin) when it comes to my hunnybun, maybe because I know bumebenta sa kanya ang pagka KSP ko.haha..If he plays in the computer kukulitin ko xa kasi I want a cuddle and if he spends too much time downstairs and I'm just alone upstairs nagagalit ako (di naman kaya ako selfish?hehe). I want his TLC when I'm sick, like last week when I had cold, he made my drinks (honey and lemon), put olbas oil on my back with massage, tap my back when I cough and prepare my meds. Most of all I always want him to listen to me when I talk, his sympathy when I feel homesick and one important thing that I want from him is to understand that I am forever committed to help my family as much as I can. So to top it all,I want him to stay the " James" I knew and fell in love with.
O well, as for my hunnybun I know what he wants from me. He said this to our marriage counsellor before our wedding. He wants me to organise him and his things (abah?!) which I love doing.. hehe. He wants me to lessen my sensitivity (which makes him crazy) and stop over reacting with some things (which I usually do to tease him),let him use the computer for bit longer (no!bleeh..), stop complaining that I am fat (cos I am not, he said..wehehe) and above all he wants me to stop my favourite torture to him, the "silent mode with tiger look".haha..No worries hunnybun, wifey is trying to act maturely now. You see I haven't done it all to you lately (wink!).lol..I've been working at it hunnybun, so spare me more patience which I know you never fail to give me. In 5 years I guess hunny I'll be able to do all of these. haha..I love you so much!
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11 Thoughtful thoughts for Roxxy:
I used to demand before but naun with my husband I am already mature, alam ko naman na nd siya gagawa ng kagaguhan takot lang niya joke...
I wish you all the best. Being selfish in the early stages of your life together is natural.
i also give my hubby a silent treatment when something is bothering me. it just drives him crazy! lol! well, i know you can work things out. i can see how smitten you are with one another. God bless roxxy!
i remember when we were newly weds like you, we have the same issues. i am sure you can work it out sis. you just both need time to do that.
my CC entry is here. Have a great day!
It is so nice to read a story especially if it is real :) I am enjoying your blog sis. Visit my Blog, Sharon's Landscape of life if ever you got a chance :)
wives are in a way ALWAYS DEMANDING, haha. or tama ka,KSP lagi. kz nasanay tau na lagi tau apple of their eyes....
keep the love alive:)
Ay naku, bagong kasal kaya..maraming taon pa ang bibilangin bago mo sabihing "leave me alone and do your computer works" this is the crucial time of your marriage life, get to know each other, mga inarte moments from you. mga sensitivity na pointless, hahahaha! eventually, you won't even mind if you're upstairs by yourself and he's downtairs, kapag me anak na kayo, hay naku, sasabihin mong "give me few hours to myself please, hehehe.. wait ka lang ng ilang panahon, mawawala na ang kaartehan mo, hahaha! wag pikon sa comment ni Mommy Liz.
nkita ko bigla ung first year as married couple nmen while reading ur entry :) hehehehe
daming langgam dito teh :) sweeetness!!
Ganyan na ganyan din ako during our first year of marriage but most of the pakikisama here in Japan is going to izakaya(drinking establishment)with some of his peers kaya madalas kaming nag-aaway.Eventually naiintindihan ko naman cya,it's pakikisama daw kasi..
that sounds cute.. in a way, lol! as long as it works, it OK, but if it proves to be the beginning of some misunderstanding, i think you should try to modify, lol!
"silent treatment" that's hard. coz in our relationship i'm the one who receives those hehe.
thanks for the visit last time in my CC :D
hope you're having a great vacay!
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